How do we get rid of anger, bitterness and malice? We can’t allow what has happened in the past to control our future. Although forgiveness does not make any sense, it allows us to give to others what our Heavenly Father has given to us. We must first identify who we are angry with; determine what they owe us; then decide to cancel the debt. Forgiveness is a decision. We will only find freedom if we focus on God, rather on those who hurt us.