Single? Looking for the "right person"? Thinking that if you met the "right person" everything would turn out "right"? Think again. Becoming the person who the person you are looking for is looking for is hard. But it is not as hard as getting married and being unprepared.
In The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating, Andy Stanley explores the challenges, assumptions, and land mines associated with dating in the twenty-first century. Best of all, he offers the most practical and uncensored advice you will ever hear on this topic.
Not for the faint of heart, The New Rules for Love, Sex & Dating by Andy Stanley challenges single Christ followers to step up and set a new standard for this generation!
SMALL GROUP USE
This book includes a section of questions that may be used for small group study. Additionally, a DVD is available as a companion to this book (sold separately).
“Are you the person the person you are looking for is looking for?” — Andy Stanley
Look around you. Rules are everywhere. And, generally, rules are set up to protect, to guide, and to help. It’s no different for relationships. There are rules. Lots of them. But what if the rules are wrong? What if the rules are misleading? What if the rules are actually dangerous? In The New Rules For Love, Sex & Dating, Andy Stanley tells us why these new rules don’t work, while telling us about the rules that do.
Becoming the person who the person you are looking for is looking for is hard. But it is not as hard as getting married and being unprepared. Think about a couple of things you can do this week to become that person—the right person.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking . . . 1 Corinthians 13:4–5
“Having experienced more than my fair share of destructive, harmful dating relationships, I can authoritatively say that Andy’s views on these matters are clear and convicting.” —Maggie Bridges, Miss Georgia 2014
“This is the perfect book for my life right now. I see the things this book warns against every day in the dating relationships around me. Every line is tweet-able!” —John Luke Robertson, star of Duck Dynasty
"Andy's new rules for love, sex, and dating are so wise, so compelling, so clear that I want every single friend I have to read this book, and I want to save a couple copies for my boys, so they can read it in a decade or so." —Shauna Niequist, author of Bread and Wine
"Andy Stanley was my pastor until I moved to LA. His teaching shaped my life and continues to influence me through his online broadcast. I'm definitely a fan and I'm convinced, after reading The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating, that you will be as well." —Ben Winchell, actor, Max Steel
"No one speaks more powerfully and practically into the issues of dating and marriage in the twenty-first century than Andy Stanley. The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating is an exceptional resource for anyone seeking to navigate challenging relationship waters and survive in a culture that's confused and complex. Straightforward. Graceful. Truthful. Needed." —Louie Giglio, Passion City Church, Passion Conferences